By Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Psychologist and Sexologist

It’s been a long time since the so-called sexual revolution. A great many breakthroughs were made and information overload gets conveyed through all means of communication existing.

Just as many were the achievements since then, but the point is, whether the women of today would really be sexually liberated.

Theoretically speaking a sexually liberated woman is that one enabled to wield her sexuality fully. She is entitled to please her fancies, get laid only if so wished, entitled to derive pleasure, aware of herself, and would wear her sex appeal regardless. Being sexually detached, shares her background with her partner deriving the most out of pleasure within intercourse, gets to sample on all sorts of sexual tidbits with total disregard to the amount of partners picked up along the way, to the boot.

If the hat fits, cheerio, otherwise never mind. My clinical background feedbacks that you’re not alone. Actually remains large the amount of women who face great dilemmas along their sexual life. It too many conflicts resulted from their attempt to break loose and pleased themselves sexually speaking.

It’s commonplace that a great many women’d feel uncomfortable in acting out all those sexually imaginable and unimaginable so-modalities once they’ve to cope with pitfalls like acknowledgement of their own bodily attributes or get into anal/and or oral sex , for instance. Just as many would find hard to masturbate on their own, let alone having to do it in front of a partner.

Remains substantial the amount of women who get into sex just for the partner’s sake, in that being afraid of loosing him/her. Macho-orientated stances as in “if he doesn’t get it he’d ditch me” or else “it’s always greener over the fence” are tools of the trade from a hypocritical learning process that favors male sexual behavior in detriment of the female’s.

This is so because our sexual behavior comes riddle with bias and dogmas gathered all along the beaten track, rendering even more difficult to lead some reasonable sexual life, in which point  would be given no slack for emotional luggage.

Incidentally, I don’t go by the notion that several partners is what makes a woman sexually liberated, other than her knack for applying commonsense, doing so by setting apart what really matters for herself with regard to her sexual life.

Hence the self-awareness, to covet meaningful information, to get on top of things while aided by qualified experts, being forthcoming, in other words, to tell the other all that you expect from him/her (likings and dislikes, as in what might be pressed forward and what should be avoided). Respecting boundaries that would be set up by both altogether or  perhaps not, leaving no room for further resentments or regrets is yet the best possible way for making a woman feel sexually liberated thus realized.

To set herself free she would have to reach out for herself if anything. Treading the path of self-acknowledgement might prove tedious and bumpy, however gratifying. Put your mind into it. So, coming to terms with it is entirely up to you, woman.

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