By Adriana Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist

Would a woman understand all that goes o­n with the male sexiness and the differences that bring across so many discrepancies in sexuality?

As seen beforehand, a man’s exercise of sexuality focuses o­n his penis. That’s the reason why feelings of exclusion occurs in a woman’s sexual relations, for a man’s peculiar link is of himself with his own erect sexual organ, which means power and masculinity. All this male orientated eroticism brings out feelings of inferiority in a woman; after all, she doesn’t feel like participating in the sexual unfolding.

The woman posses a clear desire of lastingness that becomes more evident in the post- orgasm, for she longed for the aftermath rather than the intercourse. She feels as deeply hurt as frustrated when a man after ejaculating shifts away from her realm of desire, which was labeled as sexually alluring as horny, being the aim of caresses as well as soothing words of bliss and tenderness. So, where have all such charms gone?

Once again differences would bridge over such a gap after intercourse, after ejaculation that is, for the sex act is more ample and entails foreplay, intercourse and aftermath.

The man is fare, as he always knows what he wants and, whichever way, gets right to the point. Each orgasm is fully enjoyed as unique and exclusive by such a notoriously erratic being. The man is able to separate emotion from sex. I don’t want to overstate anything, let alone to say that a man can’t get emotionally involved with someone and lead a loyal peaceful life. “I much rather address that his nature, his physiology and cultural background, will therefore dictate behavioral rules regarding sex”.

In fact, it’s easier for them to separate things. As for the woman who longs for lastingness, reads her partner’s direct attitudes as detrimental for her emotional, which yearns solely for acknowledgement as caress, tenderness and coziness.

A woman would evaluate orgasm in all its patterns (before-during-post mainly) in contrast to a man, because of the desire for another dating. Truly, as far as female seduction concerns, all a woman deeply intimately yearns for is to leave marks carved up o­n her man, which would make him come back for more.

A man thinks about sex with a fixed idea o­n his erection and during sex focuses o­n mission accomplishment alone, whereas a woman not thinking about sex alone airs an awe inspirational that so ensures her next dates by posing him to come back again looking for her.

When a man copulates, he for o­ne leaves all with her, deflowering, semen, and gravidity. As for the woman, she gives back all the enchantment of the seduction shared and experienced with her partner.

This is so because men (misunderstood by most women) can get to jump easily from o­ne relationship to another, since they can bottle up, though concealing well separately affect from eroticism as love from sex.

As for the women much in need of living thorough and lastingly experiences in order to feel safe emotionally, that isn’t impossible, but turns out to be a lot harder.