Anne Griza
Psychologist and Sexologist

If male masturbation remains much of a taboo-like subject, the female-one takes the biscuit. Few are the women who admittedly would get beside themselves to have a go on masturbation and much less who openly would admit masturbating.

No matter how much they have evolved over time, most women still reluctant to accept their sexual needs, such as this.

Not just a sexual need, but also a healthy habit; masturbation enables women to come to terms with own physical attributes, acknowledge genitals' functioning and sexual desire. Whereas men perceive their sexual pleasure revolving on their penises, in a woman all her body is a sexual object, from skin-touch, hips, vagina to the kind of movement and position that suits her best.

Nonetheless, in order to discover it, she needs self-probing, feeling herself, since her sex partner would hardly ever come to figure that out.

A sexual act hinges on the preliminaries as far as a woman's concerned, which would supply her with all the well-sought resources and therefore orgasm reaching. However, the preliminaries or foreplay isn't just plain breast fondling and vagina tickling, but the whole set of actions that she could induce her sex partner to bring into play.

Therefore, she needs herself to know which acts are those, and for that, needs to know herself.

Our society, however, makes self-making hard. The feminine sexual pleasure up until recently was literally a sin. In certain societies, up until today, feeling pleasure is denied for women, seemingly having their clitoris extirpated at early age.

Some women have already let their hair down and doing so admittedly, but the vast majority haven't got on top of stigmatization yet. Since lee-years should girls be taught that touching themselves is something dirty, very naughty. Most of them will grow up with that bore in mind, likely to rebound in form of low-grade sexual relations and a sentiment of incapacity for deriving pleasure.

There's a multitude of sex-toys readily available for the sake of masturbation, but it's all good for nothing if a woman fails to let herself being carried away by her own sexual fantasies.

She won't be able to derive pleasure from masturbation if unable to get rid of preconceived ideas, if not listening to what her body and mind urge.

Sex that is, a merger of self-indulgence and fantasy, which leads to sexuality heightening.

Masturbation contributes to everyone know what their bodies and minds claim for the sake of sexual intercourse so they will get the most out of it, figure of speech.

To masturbate oneself isn't despicable at all, by self-pampering. Speaking of which, bad is to see life flying by when feeling sexually halfhearted, unable to self-indulge somewhat. Naughty and dirty comes down to not let yourself in for something so soothing and so simple at the same time, and it's nobody's business, if that comes to be the case. Ugly is not to trade off with sex-partner what was being learnt about oneself in its best mode ever, experimenting.

Anne Griza

Sexologist

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