By Anne Griza
Psychologist and Sexologist

Oddly, lately, some particular type of aesthetic intervention for the women is o­n raise, the hymen replacement so-surgery. This survey inferred mainly in the United States, though the prospective held is that it soon might be out worldwide. 

There are nations in which this means usual sexual practice, like in South Korea, where virginity is mandatory for the girl pinching a reasonable hubby, although in most others, it works out in favour of a lie.

The woman usually looses the hymen through sexual intercourse upon penetration. Otherwise there are cases, quite rare though, in which point rupture of hymen by some reason or another may occur, as in falling down or due examination requirements, however unusual.

Some of whom rape victims undergo this surgery. The surgery solely remakes it, although won’t help in backtracking what happen then. 

What lies within the psychics can’t be rebuilt nor recovered by surgical means. The damage done by the event may never be forgotten, if so only attenuated and that’s saying something. 

To replace the hymen is to become virgin again physically speaking, and meant purely physical. In the mind, any moment lived up along with someone else, never ceases to exist.

To neglect the existence of a prior sexual relation (or many more before that), won’t help to erase what happen, instead will create a false image of purity, which serves well to a lie. To whom it may concern.

Those women who have undergone the hymen replacement surgery, whished broadly to show their sexual partners that were still pure, or else being serious women.

After all that sexual freedom in the sixties, is now taken place the return of some rather puritan notions, about virginity, as of saving yourself to Mr. Right. It might sound weird, but an increasingly number of women could well be thinking this way.

There’s nothing wrong with that. Every one knows best about their bodies and what is most suitable for them. 

Should desire ever exist to keep virginity for the ideal man, it’s up to personal choice to decide which is which. As relevant is that the women are made aware that the past won’t turn back, so that what is done may be reversed by surgical means, but never for somebody else’s remembrance and reasoning.

Moreover, if meant for the man to think that she still a virgin, even worse, since such relationship already thrives on such a failsafe, then fatally will take others so as to keep up with the first one.

All the despair triggered by the plot isn’t worth the trouble as this man may not be “the first one in her life”, and openness shared by both means much more than anything else into the resolution of this one and other problems too.  

Every one has a life story to tell, whereby might have some sexual partner dropped in advance, and to coy it is to deny a role lived in, of some undergone apprentice.

Everything in life teach us something, nothing should get left behind, not even a single regret, joy or insight. All that gets denied today might become tomorrow’s torment, sexual lifestyle inclusive.